How do you tell someone you are dating, who is not a swinger that you are in the lifestyle?

A friend of mine has begun searching for people outside of the lifestyle on one of the plain vanilla non-swingers sites. I personally remember how back in the day Y-Personals were the best place to find people, and I heard about many people actually finding their “true loves” on there…actually they met several of their true loves on there.  Funny thing is when they opened up about their sex life and told them that they were in the lifestyle they were fascinated and wanted to try it out.

I wondered to myself how people just bring it up in conversation that “hey by the way…I am a swinger”

So I asked.  “Oh, I just brought it up and we started talking about it our past experiences and when I mentioned it she/he mentioned that they would want to check out the scene.”

Now the couples, who began as your average vanilla couples, have now embraced the lifestyle as a couple and are blissful and in find irresistible and get to play with others.  My friend has met some nice guys on these non-swinging plain Jane vanilla sites and having perfect first dates with no sex, just great conversation and drinks.  Second dates are usually similar to my first date; however, she gets at ease with them and starts talking about the lifestyle.   While these guys to begin with seem to be “into it” and want to know more, they typically send an email or text about their hang ups about not wanting to see me with another man and that is just disgusting…blah, blah, blah. It has happened more than once.  How would you handle this situation?

Police recover 700,000 stolen condoms...

Malaysian police recover 700,000 stolen condoms

KUALA LUMPUR, Malaysia (AP) -- Malaysian police say they have recovered about 700,000 condoms that were stolen while being shipped to Japan two months ago.

Mohamad Shukri Dahlan, police chief of Malaysia's northern Perak state, says authorities found hundreds of boxes of condoms at a warehouse and a home last week. Police arrested six men who allegedly were storing the condoms in hope of eventually selling them.

Mohamad Shukri said Thursday some of the suspects work for a company that was transporting the condoms from a factory to a port. They face 10 years in prison if convicted of corruption.

He says the condoms will be returned to Sagami Rubber Industries, one of Japan's biggest condom makers. The merchandise is estimated to be worth $1.5 million.

Cruises: Two die on-shore in Cozumel, Mexico

Posted by: Sean O'Neill, Thursday, Feb 10, 2011, 4:43 PM

Cozumel, the gorgeous Mexican cruise port, has never been more popular, attracting more than 2 million visitors last year—a record. But in recent weeks, one crew member who debarked Royal Caribbean's Allure of the Seas appears to have been killed

A passenger on the trip died after she ingested a safety pin. These events have put this Western Caribbean beach resort destination back in the headlines.

Cruise lines, including Disney, have recently pulled out of a different cruise port—Mazatlan—due to concerns about violent crime there.

Yet Cozumel remains safe overall, as far as major cities go, according to this TripAdvisor safety report

In many parts of Mexico, standards of security, safety, and supervision may be lower than is customary in the United States. Citizens traveling internationally should consider registering in advance with the U.S. State Department's Smart Traveler Enrollment Program. In event of an emergency, your whereabouts would be easier for officials in consular agencies to determine.

That said, it's important to keep safety issues in context. Crime can happen anywhere. In Mexico, the number one cause of death for Americans has been automobile accidents, followed by falls from balconies, or into unmarked ditches, by drowning.

The U.S. government has not updated its travel warning—less severe thantravel alert—for Mexico since September. The warning still says that resort areas, such as Cozumel, are relatively safe—but American visitors should always exercise caution while on shore anywhere in the country, and particular in northern areas affected by drug violence.

As a side note: Spring breakers, in particular, should know that Mexican law can impose tough penalties for excessive drinking, drug abuse, or drug purchasing, that might be considered relatively minor in the U.S., and U.S. citizenship doesn't get you off the hook from full prosecution under Mexican law.

Snake dies after biting silicone breast

A huge snake which bit a model's surgically enhanced breast later died from silicone poisoning.

Israeli model Orit Fox was posing with the snake at a photoshoot in Tel Aviv when it suddenly turned on her.

She was holding the boa constrictor and went to lick its head when it suddenly tired of the attention and latched on to her left breast.


Footage of the incident on Spanish TV channel Telecino has notched up nearly a quarter of a million hits on YouTube.

As the snake bit Fox, a man rushed over to help her and remove the snake from her breast.

The model was taken to Hillel Yaffe Hospital in Hadera, northwest of Jerusalem, but later released after a tetanus shot and a few hours of observation.

But the snake did not fare so well. Days later, Telecinco reported that the creature had died of silicone poisoning.

Fox is regarded as Israel's version of Katie Price and has undergone several operations to enlarge her breasts.

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